Manasvi Kotwal | May 19, 2025
8 Parenting Mistakes Most Mothers Make
Trying to Be Perfect
Striving for perfect motherhood leads to burnout. Kids don’t need a perfect mom — just a present, real, loving one.
Overprotecting the Child
Shielding kids from failure denies growth. Struggles build confidence. Safe risks are important — let them experience wins and losses.
Not Listening Enough
Moms often jump to fix things. Instead, pause and listen. Your child needs emotional validation more than just solutions.
Comparing to Others
“Look at them!” harms self-worth. Each child is unique. Comparing creates pressure and insecurity, not motivation. Celebrate their individual pace.
Being Glued to Screens
Kids notice when your phone wins attention. Model mindful habits. Time with them matters more than replying to every message.
Ignoring Self-Care
You can’t pour from an empty cup. Neglecting your needs leads to frustration. A healthy mom raises a healthier child.
Hiding Emotions
Pretending you’re always fine teaches kids to hide feelings. Express gently. It teaches emotional honesty, not weakness, in your home.
Doing Everything Alone
You’re not meant to mother alone. Share responsibilities. Whether it's family or therapy — support is strength, not a flaw.